Major Problem of ‘09

Fill in and share: “One major problem I had to solve this year was…”

I have a major problem when it comes to reacting properly when I end up in the losing end when I find out that it won’t work with the guy I like. My martyr complex comes out or I get too emotional whenever I do end up in the losing end.

By the end of 2009, I learned to deal with the problem. I began embracing myself for who I am and who I’m not. Furthermore, I focused on the good things in life—like good friends and family, my school work, and my writing career. I just assure myself that one day MY day will really come when it’s meant to.

Besides, it’s not about pleasing those boys. Too bad if they didn’t like me for who I am. I would’ve been a catch. (Now don’t mistake that for arrogance. It’s confidence, something I hardly let out.)